ADVENTURE #1 – HOUSE MOUNTAIN / THE VALARIUM

30 01 2009

It’s about 5:15 p.m. on Friday night.  I’ve got to go back to work soon to train another client, but I’ve used some spare time today to plot out an adventure for tomorrow.

I’ll be going to House Mountain State Natural Area near my current home of Knoxville.  I’ve been here before several times, but rarely in the cold.  I just got off the phone with one of my friends and clients, and he’ll be coming with me, so that should mix things up a bit.  To mix it up even more, we’re going to do our routine Saturday morning training session at a different gym that’s part of the same company.  Often its the little things that keep life interesting.  At this other gym, we’ll get fresh scenery, some different exercise machines, and a chance to visit with one of my former managers, who’s always a delight to see.

The plan from there is to grab some breakfast, head to the mountain, and then be out by afternoon.  Tomorrow night, I’ll be going breakdancing at the Valarium.  The last time I went dancing was weeks ago in Washington D.C., and I can’t wait to hit the floor with the local dance crew and see who I might meet.

ACCOMPLISHMENTS:

1.  Met LJ, my semi-anonymous client.  Got to use some different machines to work his upper body.

2. Dropped off goodies and got to visit with our friend, who is a manager at the club.

3. Ate breakfast at Best Bagels.

4. Detoured to LJ’s house, where I got to try colloidal silver for my sore throat, tour his place, and learn the new roads to get there.

5. Hiked House Mountain, which included lots of climbing on boulders.

House Mountain rocks

House Mountain rocks

When I see a cool spot, I've got to get to it.

When I see a cool spot, I've got to get to it.

Examining lichens on a stone

Examining lichens on a stone

LJ at the West Overlook

LJ at the West Overlook

View to the West

View to the West

A fantastic cave I wouldn't mind sleeping in

A fantastic cave I wouldn't mind sleeping in

Crossing the stream of the woods

Crossing the stream of the woods

6. Used the web features on my new phone to determine that Sony Pro Duo 2GB memory sticks would work with my camera, the Sony Cybershot DSC-F717 if I had an adapter.

7. Bought the above equipment at Best Buy.

8. Ate at a new restaurant for me (LJ had been there before).  It was a local Mexican place known for its tomales and salsa.  I drank a horchata, a rarity for me.

9. Examined the cellular blinds at LJs place.

All in all, today has included a lot of firsts for me, and LJ too.

But it’s not over yet.  Now it’s time to rest up, because I’ve got dancing bugs all over me, and the Valarium is calling my name.

HOUSE MOUNTAIN

On another adventure, my parents and I went horseback riding in Cades Cove, then cycled around the cove, stopping at Abram’s Falls to hike in.  I jumped off the waterfall into freezing water twice, hiked out and finished the bike ride, all with only a plain pesto bagel, one blueberry muffin, and some vitamin water on my stomach.  So I had the same breakfast today.

House Mountain has all the rustic beauty you’d expect from the East Tennessee woods.  Low, there are twisted knots of undergrowth, small boulders and thick trees.  High on the ridge, a pebbly path through evergreens and ferns evokes the feeling of childhood, playing through fantasies of monster-hunting and sword-wielding.  The mountain has good-sized boulders to clamber around on, and I enjoying climbing an overhanging one, though I had to fight its chill, which drew the heat from my hands with every new hold.  I crossed a fallen log over at least a 10-foot drop and even found a few lingering icicles near the trail.

LJ had never ventured here before, and though we did take breaks for photo and video-ops, he managed it without much difficulty, getting in a solid leg workout.

House Mountain is a quiet place, close to the city, free of the fame the nearby Great Smoky Mountains National Park endures.  It’s like an extended back yard for those who grew up on wooded lots in East Tennessee, the lucky kids like me who had woods to explore growing up.  It had caves, great views, and a smell that to me is intoxicating:  the smell of woods full of fallen leaves, mosses, and streams.

I’ve had plenty of past adventures here, which have included such highlights as seeing a broad-headed skink, swinging on a vine, climbing some of the steepest rock ridges and once leaving the University of Tennessee and climbing to the top alone in search of clarity for my troubled mind.  I’ve brought groups here, and all both of my past girlfriends (yes, that’s an intentional grammar mistake).  But today, I returned to it as to an old friend for the comfort of a listening ear, talking about fantasy novels, technology and future plans with my friend LJ, enjoying introducing yet another to its hospitality.

This place has seen me visit at my most troubled times, when I came seeking relief from despair, and also at my most delighted, when I traveled its loop with the blitheness of young love.  It is a comfort to know that nature’s powerful presence remains reason enough to come back again and again.  I can add to my memories a walk and a talk with a unique soul (that’d be LJ’s) this brisk January day.

HIKING AND DANCING

I’ve had some of my best dance nights on Saturdays when I’ve hiked.  Maybe it’s the fresh air you get out in nature, or just the relaxation of being away from the city, but I’ve been known to pull out new breakdancing sets on nights when I should have been tired from the day’s trek.  Or, it could just be that when the mood of adventure strikes, you get on a roll and have to go with the flow.

TEA AND INSPIRATION

Between dropping off LJ and dancing, I decided not to take a nap.  Instead, I’ve been drinking Old Bush Shui Xian, and watching a DVRed Man vs. Wild episode, “Oregon.”  I get so much inspiration and education from this show, and sipping the tea eases me into relaxed-but-ready state.  With two dogs and Jing Jing for company, and the sun setting, this is better than sleep for charging up for a night out.

THE CLUB AND THE TRIBE

I’ve danced at clubs in Bangkok, Hong Kong, Washington D.C., New York City, Atlanta and Knoxville.  I’ve been to beach full moon parties in Thailand, and danced in mega clubs in other parts of China and in a Malaysian apartment.  But the Valarium is my home club, like it’s predecessor Fiction used to be.

I’ve never been to a club with as many breakdancers.  It’s too loud to talk.  I don’t know all their names.  I’ve never eaten a meal with any of them.  But in the Valarium, I am among kindred spirits.  We speak in clapping and smiles, in gestures, punches and pats on the back.  We converse in the language of movement, a language that needs no translation anywhere in the world.  Some of the dancers will forever be strangers to me, and yet I sense a deep feeling of the mutual respect and appreciation that humans so desperately crave.  This unique kind of relationship forged among dancers is a phenomenon I’ve witnessed almost everywhere I have danced, a fascinating little corner of what the world and human nature has to offer.

I’ve rarely seen a line so long outside, and I did miss dancing to a remix of Rihanna’s “Disturbia,” but it didn’t matter.  It seemed all the regular’s were there, plus a gal (with a smile that could light up a room) who’d moved away, back on a visit.  Most everyone was on form and full of energy.   DJ Slink took over and offered a great mix.  I usually listen to and practice to very fast songs, so occasionally I have to hang back for slower beats, but I didn’t have to wait long Saturday.

There were some trouble-makers in the circle.  It’s not uncommon for out-of-it patrons to stumble into the breakdancing circle unawares and run into one of us, but on this night some conflicts between those watching the dance circle started to get out of hand.  As I watched the pushing, shoving, and general macho attempts to assert dominance, my thought was:  “If you want to fight, go outside; if you want to dance, get on the floor and out of each others’ faces.”  But the true dancers kept taking back the circle.

The flood of people in the Valarium produced the same result that all crowded mega clubs do:  it wasn’t long before our space of floor was saturaded with ice and alcohols.  But you can’t stop dancers like us.  If you, good reader, are a club goer who feel compelled to take your drink on the dance floor, do us a favor and keep it in its respective glass or bottle.  It’s quite rude not to.

On to the good:  I’ll remember the night for watching and performing high-impact moves while swept up in the storm of music, pulling out some tricks I’ve done before, letting my heart race and feeling my lungs fill like I was sprinting.  Sweat all over, grit on my hands, my whole body pulsing to irresistible tracks, spinning out of control on my back and shoulders.  Bliss.  Plus, I got to see a gal I recently met in action at the club, and I wasn’t disappointed.  I also had to give props to a guy who’s getting better and better at headspins.  I need to catch up.

The dancers I know at the Valarium and myself are separate from the general club crowd.  We come for the exhibition, the movement itself–we don’t need go-gos with too much makeup, VIP tables, overpriced liquors or “dress-to-impress” clothes.  We are like all the tribes of ancient man who invented dance in the natural course of life.  They danced to drums and chants by firelight.  Those I stood shoulder-to-shoulder with at the Valarium and I, we are flame of the genuine human spirit burning among the frozen.  We coax out our nature-/God-given endorphins at night, as our ancestors did, with moving lights and rhythmic music, to lift ourselves above the pain and mediocrity of everyday survival, accessing the joy in ourselves, the best in ourselves.

SUNDAY

Surprisingly, I am not sore at all and have been alert all day.  I’ve even trained a couple of folks.  It’s a warm, sunny day, best used for running errands, visiting a friend and doing a bit of sprucing up at home.  In retrospect, I can say last night once again confirms that I dance better when I hike on Saturday afternoon.

WHAT ABOUT THAT COLLOIDAL SILVER?

Well, I did do some poking around about colloidal silver.  Here’s an article from the Mayo Clinic.  That said, my throat didn’t bother me for the rest of the day.





PHILOSOPHY #1 – LESS IS MORE

29 01 2009

Today my adventure is going to be very productive. I’m going to re-organize my room, and use it to explore my ideas about minimalism. The place is a mess, but I should be able to get it done in a couple of hours. It’s 10:45 in the morning now, my cat Jing Jing is here to encourage me, and I’ve got some dance music plugged in to my speakers. I’m going to try out Brad Miller’s “Push the Night” podcast, #11. I may stop to write more as I go along, so now let’s give it a go…

Well it’s 12:45 now. I’ve been moving pretty smoothly, probably because I’m tackling the easiest things first. Two thoughts:

1. It’s much easier to clean, organize and minimize when you’ve done it previously. Each time there’s less fat to trim.

2. Sometimes to clean one area you have to make a complete mess of another one. But I’m learning not to back down from a task when it turns out to be a lot more complicated than I’d hoped.

Back to it…

It’s 1:35 now. I’m really starting to tire. It’s a race against the clock in a sense, because I need to be back at work around 3 p.m. One final push…

It’s 2:35, and bravo! My room is as clean as it’s been in a while. I’m going to write a bit now, but I’ll have to edit this and add more later after work.

MY METHOD OF CLEANING

1. I start piles for plastic and paper that can be recycled, as well as a pile of things that need to go. It’s unfortunate, but some packaging just isn’t made to be recycled, and if I tried, it would only hose up the process of people trying to do the right thing. This time, less than a handful is going to the landfill.

2. I also have a bag of “techno trash.” This is stuff that can be recycled, if you know the right people. Old discs and CDs, as well as their cases, an old portable CD player, flash drives, and other goods can be kept together until you have enough to send them to a company like GreenDisk.

3. I have a “reuse bin.” The items here have the potential to be reused for another purpose, given away, or maybe even crafted into something useful (and if the project doesn’t work, I at least got to destroy them). From time to time, I intend to post items I will give away. There are a few websites that network people for this purpose, but I haven’t had the time to get into them yet.

4. I use Clorox’s greenworks all-purpose cleaner and washable cleaning cloths to avoid any paper waste.

5. I clean just as often as I need to. I’m not going to waste my life taking care of my stuff. My stuff is supposed to take care of me.

6. That means that I ask myself tough questions as I’m cleaning, like “Do I really need this?” and “How likely am I to ever use this in the coming year?” Sounds basic, but if you’re not going to organize often, you have to be ready to get rid of bad inventory quickly and without regret.

7. I try my best to be minimalistic.

MINIMALISM

In a word: functional. That’s what my living space is all about. Everything is designed with a purpose in mind.

I have almost no furniture, just a fold up drafting table, plastic take-apart shelving, plastic drawers, and 5 plastic bins. My bed is a futon mattress on the floor. I found the love of sleeping on the floor in Japan, and before that when I was a kid “camping out” in the living room with my dad and brother. It’s still cool now. I use a good packing box to store other boxes, rucksacks and shopping bags that I might use to store stuff in or travel with later. I keep my DVDs and computer electronics that don’t get touched daily in MountainSmith’s modular hauler bags.  I have a plastic drawer for 1) vital financial and legal documents, 2) toiletries and medicines, 3) CDs and software, and 4) momentos,mailings and maps.

I have maps on the wall, one poster from my favorite video game of all time, Final Fantasy VIII, and two beautiful watercolor canvases painted by an artistically gifted friend.  The plastic shelving holds folded clothes in several spots:  unmentionables (this term always makes me laugh), sheets, outdoor adventure clothes (a.k.a. stuff that can get muddy, wet and fithly), athletic gear, street clothes, Packtowels (an MSR product), and lastly, stuff that’s been worn but I plan to wear it again.  Oh, and socks have a section too.

A whole bunch of other sorted stuff is kept in the bins.  I keep the user’s manuals to things I’ve bought all in one place, a reused Verizon Wireless bag.  I have a place for teaware and a MountainSmith bag of my tea collection.  That’s about it.

This keeps my life simple and uncluttered–just the way I like it.

My desk may look cluttered, but it holds all the things I will be wanting to just grab:  cameras, chargers, my Skype headset, journals, books I’m reading, even some candles for mood lighting.  I also have a basket containing coupons and gift certificates.

Minimalistic, compact living frees me from the burden of stuff.  I could pack up and move in day or two.  Also, I sublease a room in a condo, so I’m not burdened down by a mortgage payment.  I have only what I need and can get to it instantly.  There’s little to keep track of, so its very easy to organize, pack for trips and redecorate.

My life stays centered on doing and not having.  I am defined by actions, not possessions.

I think it’s important to sidestep the snare of image-conciousness and the mirage of security.





THE FIRST POST

28 01 2009

My name is Brad.  A while back I noted that I’m the happiest person I’ve ever met, and now I’m blogging about living the good life, the simple way.  It’s a journey for what matters–I’m still on it and now you can follow my escapades through the extraordinary and the everyday.

I write.  I dance.  I seek out adventures and simple pleasures, along the way drinking lots of tea and trying to solve the mysteries of life.

Welcome to Brad’s guide to happiness.

Who knows what we’ll find.








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